Many Chinese parents are looking for their
child’s or even relative’s future partner at the market in Shanghai. Because of
one-child policy, many Chinese do not have the experience to meet the
opposite-sex, and their parents are desperate not to cut the family’s line.
This is very interesting. I believe it will
never happen in Japan. The way of finding a future partner has been changing in
many countries. In Japan, match-making party, especially Machi-kon, is now very
popular among young people. What is wrong with China? Parents post their child
profile on a board and try to find preferable wife or husband for their child,
which is a stupid idea to me. Japan used to have a system called Omiai. It is
still worked among some, but it has been becoming an old-fashion. For me it is
our rights to choose who we are going to marry with.
Anyway, such an unusual activity is in
China. This is because of one-child policy, which created a difficult society
for both men and women to get married. Surprisingly, the number of women who
are looking for the partner is larger than that of men, which is opposite with
the population composition in Chinese society. These unexpected results let me
worried about the future progress of China.
1 Do you want your parents to choose your
future partner? Why or Why not?
2 Which element is the most important for
you? The way of look, income, age, education, or personality? (These are the
list of a post in Chinese marriage market.)